What to do when my crush likes someone else?

“What to do when my crush likes someone else?” So, finally you ask about it after spending so many months or years daydreaming about your crush. Let’s find some opinion here about what to do when your crush likes another girl.

What to do when my crush likes someone else?

We admit we have a crush on someone at some point at our life. And it sucks when we find out that our crush is liking someone else. It’s completely normal to feel hurt when someone we like likes somebody else and you are asking, “why can’t it be me?” 

Don’t be stressed out, here’s about what to do when my crush likes someone else: 

1. Stay Cool 

yeah, just stay cool there. I know that you feel jealous, sad, and angry when you find out your crush loves someone else. But don’t show it to people that you are mad. 

Your crush has their own feelings. They can like, love, and date anyone they want. Mostly when they don’t know you have a crush on them. 

2. Don’t Be Jealous 

Jealousy is a natural feeling. It comes out when you see someone you like intertwining their soul with somebody else. But don’t show your jealousy to your crush or people. 

Because your crush will be so confused if you act jealous toward the people they like. What? Because you are so jealous and you wanna punch their faces or yell at them? That doesn’t make you look attractive or nice. 

3. Keep Being Nice 

You are deeply hurt inside seeing your crush laughing with someone else, but that’s not the reason you can act not nice to them. You should keep being nice like nothing is happening. 

Like, umm, you can just act normal. Keep talking to your crush nicely, be around them, appreciate them, and basically just keep your approach smooth and nice. 

4. Be Fun and Playful 

Be someone who is fun and playful around your crush. You need to keep making them happy around you, crack the jokes, and accompany them like a normal thing to do, even when you are hurt inside knowing your crush might like somebody else. 

You may also wanna read: 98 Things to Say to Your Crush to Make Her Smile Over Text

5. You Could Fake A Smile 

What to do when my crush likes someone else? You could fake a smile. Cause your crush doesn’t even know if you like them, so they don’t even know if you are hurt by them seeing someone else. 

The wisest you can do is just fake a smile, until you know what to do next, whether you wanna approach your crush even more or figure out some other better things to do. 

6. Find Out More about What Your Crush Likes 

While you are good friends with your crush, you could find some more clues about what he/she likes in person, so that maybe you could find a way to win your crush’s love. Try and find out what they like, but don’t try too hard to someone else you are not. 

7. Still Be Friends with Your Crush 

I think, staying friends with your crush is one good move. You can know them better naturally and they will feel close to you. 

On the other hand, that can be harder, like the time when your crush might tell you about the other person they like.

8. Give Them Codes 

What to do when my crush likes someone else? Umm, maybe give them codes about how you feel about them. Like, send them the “You Belong with Me” song or something, if you are not ready to confess your feelings directly. 

You may also wanna read: 32 Sweet Things to Say to Your Crush on His Birthday

9. Don’t Take It Personally 

I know you feel hurt, sad, and angry when your crush likes someone else, but don’t take it as a personal insult. Again I wanna tell you that your crush doesn’t know you like them and they have their own feelings you cannot control. 

Even when you have confessed that you like them, and they don’t like you back, that’s okay. That doesn’t mean you are ugly or you are a bad person, they maybe just don’t see you in a romantic way but you are still a great person. 

10. Let Your Crush Knows about How You Feel 

Maybe you should let them know how you feel about them. It’s not a crime to confess your feelings, but it takes courage. 

Hey, find out here Should I Confess to My Crush? (Some Tips and Suggestion)

11. Think If Your Crush Worthy?

Now have some time to think if your crush is worth it? Is it good for you and your mental health to keep chasing on them? To keep waiting for them like forever?

For example, we had a crush in high school, though he was everything, but now we realize he was just a jerk not worth anything in our future life. Think about that.

12. Focus on You 

What to do when your crush likes another girl? Nothing but you better focus on yourself. You know, you can still be happy even when your crush doesn’t like you back. There are so many things to do in life to be happy. 

13. Find Someone Else

When you are done, you have tried every possible move to get your crush to be yours, but they ended up with somebody else, then give up.

Focus on yourself, work on yourself now. When you are ready, go find someone else better. 

You may also wanna read: Should I Give Up on My Crush If She Has A Boyfriend?

“Okay, that’s a wrap!”

You can like someone else. They can like someone else too. You cannot force someone to like you back, no matter how much you like them. 

It’s natural to feel broken when things don’t go the way we want to, but in the end you are gonna feel okay again. Remember that one crush you had in middle school? Now that sounds silly and funny right. 

Author: A Writer in The Dark

“Misery, sadness, loss of faith, no reason to live… this is perfect for you.” — Vance from 500 days of Summer

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